The Passerby thinks it's time to come back!

I have passed by so much I need to come back one more time or more and retell about my adventures.

Are you insulted by this? I definately am!

OK I know it's supposed to be funny but I still feel it is offensive don't you think?
New Anti-Smoking Ads Warn Teens 'It's Gay To Smoke'

Separate but equal is never equal

So on Tuesday May 26th 2009 the California Supreme court Upheld Prop 8; what a sad day it was in California and the rest of the world and for all those affected by it. It is bitter sweet because for the 18,000 couple who got married during the window of opportunity get to keep their marriage licenses but those who didn't can't get married. This is 2009 just the way Health and Education has become a basic right that is essential to our lives so should the right to marry be. Although a majority of people don't think so but eventually and hopefully they hearts will be softened and they will come to realize love is love.

Congratulations class of 2009

So who doesn't love Ellen? hmmmm well if you don't it is OK too. Anyways Ellen is very charming and I love her for that. She is funny and has some good advice and during this graduation season she was down in New Orleans at Tulane University. Watch the clip below and see how hilarious and charming she is. I just couldn't resist to share this.

To Ladies

Every time i turn around one of my friends is having problems with their significant other. I don't like it it pains me to see them go through pain. If i could take away their pain i would but most of them dig their own graves that's why its hard to save them from themselves.
Ladies you all deserve better if your love isn't being nice and treats you otherwise than you would like please walk.No one deserves to be in an abusive relationship. Abuse doesn't have to only be physical;most people go through emotional abuse and they never talk about it and as much as physical is more popular than emotional although its the latter one that is damaging.
You are a princess and you should be treated like one so if your love is not doing so please hint that you would prefer to be treated like one. I tell you some people can be dense and need some pointers. If they can't do it find someone who would listen to you and do you well whatever it is that makes you happy. OK Babes?
Yours truly
Just a Passer By.

My Way

Current mood: Calm


In this life however many trials and tribulations you may go through there is always hope that comforts you to anticipate for the best.That is why Hope dies last. You can try to smile and the happiest you get is crying your heart out;that doesn't mean you should stay down and keep being there.Stand up and dust yourself and move on .The memories and experiences that happen during the past are teachings to make the future you a better person ...no doubt about that however painful they may be the better and intensely appreciated will the future you be for all you accomplish and be.

The Gay Hilarious storm

How funny is this like really? Moving on i have always had a crush on Sophia Bush oh i know this ... its the voice yes ..i tell you and the dark hair that's it. Anyways i love this parodies they do drive the message home and hopefully they can open people's mind.

A Gaythering Storm from Jane Lynch

And talk about Stephen Colbert


lets roll the tape shall we?

The Colbert Report	Mon - Thurs 11:30pm / 10:30c
The Colbert Coalition's Anti-Gay Marriage Ad
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Colbert Report Full Episodes Political Humor Gay Marriage Commercial

Enjoy!!!

Let's Kiss

Hey Lovely ladies here show us a sneak peak at kissing lets watch shall we?


Watch Lovely lesbian kiss in Entertainment  |  View More Free Videos Online at Veoh.com


Very Cute i must say.I was just fascinated by them even though i don't understand Spanish thanks to body language i know whats going on.
:)

Everyone should have the right to tie the knot.

Everyone should be have the right to tie the knot.







5 Things You Can Say...
when someone asks you why you are wearing a White Knot
or when you have the opportunity to talk about Marriage Equality.
1 I wear a White Knot because I support Marriage Equality. Everyone should have the right to tie the knot.

2 Marriage is about committed couples—all committed couples—who want to make a lifelong promise to take care of and be responsible for each other. This can only strengthen family and society.

3 Denying committed couples the security and legal protections of marriage hurts them; it’s wrong to make it harder for committed couples to take care of and be responsible for each other.

4 People can have different beliefs and still treat everyone fairly. That’s why our constitution exists to protect everyone equally, including minorities.

5 What if you were told that you couldn't marry the person you loved? What would that do to you? And what if you got married, and someone tried to take it away?

Get more conversation starters at Freedom to Marry, GLAAD (PDF), and Let California Ring.

Getting to know me through words

Using only one word copy and change the answers to suit you.

1. Where is your cell phone? Pocket
2. Your significant other? MIA
3. Your hair? Short
4. Your mother? Working
5. Your father? Gone
6. Your favorite thing? Travel
7. Your dream last night? Infatuation
8. Your favorite drink? Coffee
9. Your dream/goal? Doctor
10. What room you are in? Library
11. Your hobby? Procrastination
12. Your fear? Failure
13. Where do you want to be in 6 years? CDC
14. Where were you last night? Bedroom
16. Muffins? coffee
17. Wish list item? Glasses
18. Where you grew up? Backyard
19. Last thing you did? stress
20. What are you wearing? Jacket
21. Your TV? HUh?
22. Your pets? None
23. Friends? crazy
24. Your life? Entertaining
25. Your mood? Heartbroken
26. Missing some one? No
27. Car? why?
28. Something you're not wearing? Watch
29. Your favorite store? Walmart
30. Your favorite color? Purple
33. When is the last time you laughed? Oscars
34. Last time you cried? 2008
35. Who will resend this? Why?
36. One place that I go to over and over? Library
37. One person who e-mails me regularly? school
38. My favorite place to eat? Arby's
39. Why you participated in this survey? Recession
40. What are you doing tonight? Internet

It happens to real people too

Those nights that you wake up next to a warm body in a bed that is clearly not yours and you don't know the name of who the hell is next to you i thought they only happen in TV land and the movies. I didn't get the memo when it was sent out that these stuff really happen to real people. I don't blame how the night turned out; not when you are so stressed out with numerous assignments in school, dealing with ludicrous professors that ask way too much of you but again its for my best interest. When you have so many responsibilities in your life from work to school to your normal life it is not hard to want to unwind when you go out to get involved in a night of debauchery. I am not asking for a pass but if i was guaranteed i won't wake up to nursing a big hangover i would just hang my boots up and wallow in pity as i explore the single life of an overstressed passer by.

pull me push me back and forth dance

This pull me push me back and forth dance we are doing is not making me happy. I know better to move on to better and finer things in life but i love the thrill i still get when am near you. You have a way to make me feel so wanted and alienated both at the same time. This madness is not healthy i know better but i am still here. I hate you and i love you too and i think the boundaries of both are a blur to me because i cannot clearly distinguish either of them. I guess i shall still be confused Until i know which is which.

Control

I don't know how i got here but i did.Telling you i can't be the one for you was one of the hardest thing i have ever had to do.You cant blame me the respect i have for you is impeccable but i can't say the same for you.

How do you ease the pain

I feel so sick right now i really don't know how you feel. I hope it's not as bad as me because it would kill me even more. The anguish in my eyes pains and i don't want to show it to the world. It's fine you are right and am wrong just hope you feel much better than i do. I knew about your vices but you just hit me under the belt and a new low of just emerged.
I try to smile but the closest i get to a smile is crying. I await the tears to run down my cheeks but even them they are paralyzed by the heart ache. They wont come running down but i know and they know they do want to. I am so hurt by what you said to me today and i vividly keep hearing your voice replay the hurtful words over and over.
I don't expect to hear that from you but then again am the fool. I am good to you i never want to hurt you and i never do. I only want the best from you and have always wanted and always will. For whatever its worth i thought you should know.

Just go ahead and break my heart

So i love you so much and i have pictured this scene in my head so many times; i telling you how i love you and you telling me how much you love and we fall into each others embrace and forever stay there. We all have the unrequited love for the special one who holds our heart dearly.
The bravest thing is to tell your love how much you love them but the most hurtful thing is getting your heart broken into so many pieces when they do not reciprocate your affection. The clip below explains this similar sentiment clearly- A scene from Mad men where by the actress Kate Norby plays Carol McCardy confesses her love for Joan Holloway played by Christina Hendricks and let the tape roll shall we?



How can i confess my love for you and you tell me i have had a hard day? It hurts and that's love and how unruly and painful it can be.